Complaining will not make a bad situation better.
I went for a hike recently.
The brief for the journey was that we were to go about 3 km on mostly dirt roads to a creek.
The environment was dry Australian forest, mostly eucalyptus trees.
Thinking that the creek would be full of fresh water I foolishly didn’t take any water.
The journey was mostly down hill on the way there. The weather turned from warm to hot and humid.
The creek turned out to be a largely stagnant trickle. I had no way to purify the little water that was there.
Fortunately my companions had brought some water with them, but on the way back to camp we quickly ran out.
I was beginning to suffer the effects of dehydration and heat exhaustion. I felt very tired and even a few minutes walking was exhausting.
We stopped many times on the way back to the camp for me to recover some strength.
My friend asked me on the way back during one of our many stops ” What’s the most important thing for survival?”
Immediately I said “Knowledge”
Had I known the water in the creek was not drinkable I would have taken water.
Had I known the weather would become so hot and humid I would not have carried a jacket in my bag.
Once we had arrived back at camp we all drank lots of water and rested.
My friend commended me on not complaining about my obviously exhausting return journey.
I said ” Complaining never helps, so there’s not point in doing it”
He nodded knowingly.
Hearing the complaints of other people simply converts their problem into your problem.
It multiplies their irritation and makes that person your irritation.
One person complaining a lot can really destroy the morale of a group,
and then people will start arguing and fighting rather than attempting to solve the real problems they are being faced with.
So in the forest (or other places away from civilization) there will be hardships,
how you deal with them physically and emotionally is your choice.
Occasionally the person suffering will be you, it’s easy to ask people to not complain when you are not the person suffering.
When the suffering person is you, remember to not complain, you won’t be respected for your weaknesses, but you will be respected for being laconic.